This article, which is not an erotic tale, was published on my blog in August 2014. The blog no longer exists, which is why I'm bringing it to this space.

DOES MANDATORY CHASTITY EXIST?

In a D/s relationship, the slave receives a double benefit through the control exerted over them.

On the one hand, they obtain a direct reward by being reminded, inexorably, to occupy the place that corresponds to them, a place that the submissive, if inexperienced, tends to abandon if they are not continually reminded that they lack rights and freedoms.

On the other hand, through what I call the mirror effect, the submissive feels a reflection of the joy that their Master experiences when they receive the service of their slave.

Dominance can be exercised in many aspects of the submissive's life, but, from my point of view, no control offers as many benefits for the slave as the strict control of chastity. This control, like any other, must be agreed upon with the submissive. It's not about suppressing orgasm in the submissive's life, but about controlling when they can do it or when they must do it, whether they want to or not.

There are submissives who were born to be chaste, and when they are deprived of the relief that comes from ejaculating with orgasm and frequency, they find their pleasure in the progressive increase of their erotic sensitivity. Among these submissives, there are some who do not require a real Master to strictly demand the control they ask for. Their chastity is more self-imposed than demanded, and they require very few stimuli to carry it out in an admirable way.

On the other hand, there are those for whom chastity is a test that is not very interesting, as they base the sacrifice of submission on the final orgasm they hope to achieve after a session.

That's why I repeat that the control of chastity must be negotiated and never imposed unilaterally, causing the slave's frustration in an irreparable way. Every practice (and not just the control of chastity) must be agreed upon and executed with slowness, progression, and moderation. Always making a precise follow-up of the physical and emotional effects that it may cause in the slave.

Control through a device or cb, by physically preventing access, may be more effective than psychological control. It should be noted that the cage on the cock educates the attitude, but does not create it. Once again, through body control, the mind is educated. The cb is no more than a complement, a crutch, and support that is installed on the submissive so that they fulfill their obligation to remain chaste. We must not forget that above any device is the conscious will to obey the Master.

I want to affirm that the pleasure of this Dominant is born from provoking a more or less prolonged state of continuous sexual desire. The Master's pleasure resides in the slave's genital discomfort. And if the slave's attitude is re...