The Master/slave dynamic is different from many other relationships within BDSM. Some of these activities may seem extreme, but they should only be completed between consenting partners. Informed consent (consent with knowledge of the activities and risks involved) should always be given freely, without coercion or manipulation, otherwise, it is abuse, something that should be avoided at all costs.

One of the main factors, for the way many slaves see things, in feeling truly possessed is being constantly reminded throughout the day of their Master's control. These reminders can be subtle or truly intrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of their submission, the deeper it becomes.... and more satisfying. So here are some ideas you might want to try. And no matter what rules you decide to make on your own, be consistent. If you are not willing to take the time to enforce the rules you create, then there may as well be no rules at all. There is nothing in the world that makes a slave feel less loved than having a Master who ignores their transgressions and does not exercise their Dominance.

You can choose from this list of 100 ideas and agree with your slave, even proposing to include more ideas from the ones chosen at the beginning as time passes and the relationship becomes more solid, thus creating a sublime routine with them. The format helps both of you to mark your desires in the face of consensus, just mark an X in the case of wanting to practice that idea:

List of 100 ideas to strengthen the D/s relationship.

1. Make them take off their shoes as soon as they enter your house.

2. Tell them to put their usual shoes in a line by the main door. They should be in a straight line with the laces inside or the buckles fastened. Inspect them periodically.

3. Ask them to wear slave bells. The soft constant tinkling of the bells is calming and a certain reminder of their submission.

4. Give them anklets and tell them they must wear one every day, no excuses.

5. Ask them to wear a ring on their foot.

6. A beautiful, special collar will make any slave happy. Take your time to select the right one and make them wear it as often as possible.

7. Keep them with the collar locked when you are at home. You put it on them by having them kneel before you and you carry the key to the lock around your neck.

8. Specify exactly how they will address you in private.

9. If you are willing to correct them every time they forget until it becomes a habit, make them refer to themselves as "this slave" or "this dog", etc.

10. When you are with vanilla friends/family, make sure they have an alternative title for you besides Master... such as "honey", "daddy", a nickname agreed upon for that purpose, etc.

11. Ask them to call you every day at a specific time, no excuses.

12. Give them clear instructions that do not allow for doubts, that...